Dear Michelle Valentine,
I just finished reading your column and your response to a question about how a woman can know if the man she is dating is cheating on her caught my eye.
I just recently started dating a wonderful guy, who basically just fell into my life by pure circumstance.
I am so happy, but at the same time, a little nervous because I wonder how I could be so lucky to meet such a great person.
I worry that he will cheat on me as my previous boyfriend did.
Can you help alleviate my fears?
Doria, Orlando
Dear Doria,
You should feel fortunate to have found such a great guy, and I’ll bet he feels lucky to have found a great girl like you!
Whatever you do, don’t let your ex-boyfriend’s behavior put a damper on your new happiness.
Hold a positive outlook on a future with this great guy, and don’t look back!
Dear Reader:
Have you ever been cheated on in a relationship, and at the same time nervous about the future? Please leave a comment below!
Cheaters can really do a number on your relationship mentality…but not all men are the same. After I left my cheating husband I almost immediately fell into a relationship with an old flame and it took a while to adjust to how well he treated me. You deserve this new relationship with someone worthy of your time. Don’t let you ex continue to have a say in your happiness.