Dear Michelle Valentine,

I’m a sophisticated, athletic, intelligent thirty-two year old single female.

I haven’t had much luck finding men who are seeking a serious and long-term relationship.

I keep finding men who are unavailable – emotionally and personally – and I am so discouraged!

To get married and have children soon seems to be slipping by.

What can I do?

Marriage Minded


Dear Marriage Minded,

My question to you would be where are you going that you are finding all these unavailable men?

It is a shame that you cannot seem to find someone with the same goals as yourself, but I do have a recommendation:

Join an online dating site that charges a small monthly fee.

This way, if they are financially invested in meeting someone, they (may) be more serious in their search, too!

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Get ready to meet lots of men!

Dear Reader:

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With so much love and appreciation,


Michelle Valentine