Dear Michelle Valentine,

When I was 15, met a girl named Nicole. The day I met her, I swore it was love.

We went for a walk and talked, but she went away after that first day and I didn’t see her or hear from her for nearly two years.

The next time I heard from her, I was in heaven!

But when I called her back, her grandmother told me that she didn’t live there anymore.

What is going on here?

Since the day I met Nicole, I never even thought about another girl, and that has really put a crimp into my teenage dating.

Ray, via e-mail

 

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Dear Ray,

What you need to gather from this situation is that you have been fantasizing about a girl you have met in person only once and talked to on the phone but twice.

She may not be a celebrity, but this is a typical “celebrity crush,” and it is not healthy.

The short amount of time you have spent with her certainly did not allow true love to form.

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You need to start focusing on girls you can spend your teenage years with and have as much fun as you can – you won’t be a teenager forever!